You always hear about being angry can harm you. However, your anger also affects the people who are around you as well.
How your anger hurts the ones that are around you
They have to stay away from you
There are people who are concerned about you. At least most of you that is.
The problem is there are people who love you and really would like your company. These are the ones who see you as a special person. But they stay away so that they can protect themselves from you. They know that you are capable of hurting them, or you might just be anti social. So for their emotional health and personal safety, they stay away from you.
When you are angry you can cause the people who love you to feel as if they are not even alive inside.
When you are mad, you make other people mad
The smart people would stay away from you for one big reason. Your anger without a doubt would make them angry too.
Anger, like happiness, disappointment and sadness is only an emotion. And being just an emotion, they are easily transferred from one person to another. That is the way that emotions work, they catch, they are contagious.
So this means that if I know that you are angry and I go to where you are for only five minutes, I run the risk of having my entire day messed up. How smart a person would that make me, when I know what is likely to happen.
Angry people can mess up a child for life
Maybe you know already that children learn how to act angry in a very short space of time.
If your child watches you and learns how to act angry like you do, you have just made his life that much more complicated. The reason is because unless he unlearns destroying behavior he will only learn how to make the destroying behavior worse.
What you are going to get is a little person who becomes an adult that is likely to see every problem that people with uncontrolled anger see. There will be a difference with his problems though. His problems are likely to come while he is still young. Which would also mean that during his adult life his anger would affect him more, more than it did for the person he learned to be angry from.
Stop it don't let it happen anymore. Control your anger. The anger management classes you get here will see you over the hard parts of getting your anger under control. - 31521
How your anger hurts the ones that are around you
They have to stay away from you
There are people who are concerned about you. At least most of you that is.
The problem is there are people who love you and really would like your company. These are the ones who see you as a special person. But they stay away so that they can protect themselves from you. They know that you are capable of hurting them, or you might just be anti social. So for their emotional health and personal safety, they stay away from you.
When you are angry you can cause the people who love you to feel as if they are not even alive inside.
When you are mad, you make other people mad
The smart people would stay away from you for one big reason. Your anger without a doubt would make them angry too.
Anger, like happiness, disappointment and sadness is only an emotion. And being just an emotion, they are easily transferred from one person to another. That is the way that emotions work, they catch, they are contagious.
So this means that if I know that you are angry and I go to where you are for only five minutes, I run the risk of having my entire day messed up. How smart a person would that make me, when I know what is likely to happen.
Angry people can mess up a child for life
Maybe you know already that children learn how to act angry in a very short space of time.
If your child watches you and learns how to act angry like you do, you have just made his life that much more complicated. The reason is because unless he unlearns destroying behavior he will only learn how to make the destroying behavior worse.
What you are going to get is a little person who becomes an adult that is likely to see every problem that people with uncontrolled anger see. There will be a difference with his problems though. His problems are likely to come while he is still young. Which would also mean that during his adult life his anger would affect him more, more than it did for the person he learned to be angry from.
Stop it don't let it happen anymore. Control your anger. The anger management classes you get here will see you over the hard parts of getting your anger under control. - 31521
About the Author:
Broyde McDonald gives information that helps you succeed at your anger management goals. Find out more about anger management classes and how to control anger with his famous free anger management e-book.
