Getting back your girlfriend after a fight or breakup can be a daunting task. Before you go for it you most likely need to ask yourself some questions. Most important, do you need her back because you truly love her for who she is or because you would be ashamed to be seen by your friends without your 'trophy'? Was your relationship a positive one, where common ideals and goals were shared or did the relationship consist mostly of fights and disagreements?
If you think you and your girlfriend have something special and you know way down inside that she is the love of your life, then you owe it to yourself and her to make a truthful attempt at getting her back. If this is the case don't sit and stew and let your mind play through 'what if' or 'if only I had done that' scenarios - this is simply not constructive.
You could be going through all sorts of emotions ; anger, regret, fear and pining. That is OK, it is usual. Realize though, all the backwards and forwards only wears you out. Make a decision to allow her go or get her back - that's it!
If you make a decision to get her back, then you have to decide how. You can go the direct, honest and heartfelt route, ( and this is what worked for me ), If that's all it takes consider yourself fortunate. Just tell her you like her and need her back and that you are willing to work at the relationship. If you feel you definitely made a mistake you have to be ready to ask for forgiveness, if you are feeling she was the one who screwed-up, you must be willing to excuse and not dwell on past insults or grievances.
If you want to be more manipulative - and you know she's jealous, just her seeing you with a fascinating woman may be enough to send her running back to you. You know your lady and if you feel that may work, go for it - just realize - that it may backfire. - 31521
If you think you and your girlfriend have something special and you know way down inside that she is the love of your life, then you owe it to yourself and her to make a truthful attempt at getting her back. If this is the case don't sit and stew and let your mind play through 'what if' or 'if only I had done that' scenarios - this is simply not constructive.
You could be going through all sorts of emotions ; anger, regret, fear and pining. That is OK, it is usual. Realize though, all the backwards and forwards only wears you out. Make a decision to allow her go or get her back - that's it!
If you make a decision to get her back, then you have to decide how. You can go the direct, honest and heartfelt route, ( and this is what worked for me ), If that's all it takes consider yourself fortunate. Just tell her you like her and need her back and that you are willing to work at the relationship. If you feel you definitely made a mistake you have to be ready to ask for forgiveness, if you are feeling she was the one who screwed-up, you must be willing to excuse and not dwell on past insults or grievances.
If you want to be more manipulative - and you know she's jealous, just her seeing you with a fascinating woman may be enough to send her running back to you. You know your lady and if you feel that may work, go for it - just realize - that it may backfire. - 31521
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