Keeping the Stress Out Of Your Marriage

By Kris Ann

Many of us allow the Holiday time to become a very high-stress time in our lives. . Most of us run around doing things and going places without giving much thought to the meaning of it all. If we slow the pace a little bit and take time to allow the holidays to be more meaningful they can and will be. It can be a very romantic time, a time to totally reconnect with your family and especially with your spouse or significant other.

Doing little things for the holiday that leave you some spare time for romance can be the best option. Instead of stressing out and worrying about purchasing the right gift for your spouse for the holiday, look for ways that you can make time to spend quality time and reconnect a little. Maybe you can start up the fire and have dinner by it's light (if you have a fireplace in your home), or purchase a holiday classic and sit arm in arm why you watch a film that continues to touch our lives year after year.

Holidays bring up a little nostalgia in most of us. This is an emotional time where we can benefit from reminiscing about our pasts, and even the past before we had kids. Take a moment to look at old photographs and remind your spouse of something special from their childhood or a holiday you spent together.

It's true that one of the most important things we can do as a couple is to look back and reminisce about our history together. This opens the door to loving feelings of the past and helps us see each other in a new light, or possibly in an old one.

This Holiday season, use the time as an opportunity to reconnect with your loved ones, and remember the times that you have laughed, and cried together. You will see that your marital problems will vanish as you begin to reconnect with one another. - 31521

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